Welcome to our Relational Harmony Institute Practitioner Listing
Your practitioner will help you explore your presenting concern and how it is affecting your life, and the new ways of being you want to inhabit. You decide together which Practices will support your growth.
Our Somatic Intimacy Coaches and Bodywork Practitioners are all trained in the REEF™ (Relational Erotic and Emotional Fluency) coaching model as developed by Katie Sarra and Phoebe Garland. This has its foundations in Mindfulness, Sexological Bodywork®, Body Poem™, Wheel of Consent®, Right Use Of Power™, and Affective Relational Neuroscience teachings and practices. All our CSI, CSIB Practitioners & CSSE Supervisors are trained in facilitating online from anywhere in the world. You can search for CSIB practitioners in your geographical location.
Our Somatic Intimacy coaches and bodywork practitioners (CSIB) can also include practitioner touch in your session if you request it. Our somatic Intimacy Coaches and Bodywork practitioners are trained to facilitate over 45 somatic practices for enhancing your embodied decision-making in intimate relationships with yourself and with others.
Our CSSE Somatic Sex Educators and Professional Supervisors are trained to facilitate your supervision needs, informed by the Right Use of Powerâ„¢, Body Poem, and The Wheel of Consent, to meet the ethical requirements to practice in this field.
Our practitioners are trained in power-informed, enthusiastic consent, and our coaching model is based on active receiving. This means that you will only receive embodiment practices that you have co-created, with clear plans in relation to your learning intentions. You will be guided every step of the way within our session structure.
RHI Somatic Intimacy Coach & Bodywork Practitioner & Supervisor Directory
Learning to explore, discovering new
ways of being in privacy. This can
include deepening our attuned
relationship with our body; self-care,
relationship with pleasure, exploring
our relationship with our genitals in
relation to sensations and emotions, and identity; exploring our relationship with our anus, chest, belly, and learning more about ourselves to support navigating intimate relationship agreements, These are journeys into deeper self acceptance;
You may wish to overcome
troublsome turn-ons or repeating
patterns in relationships that no longer serve your best interests, this may include exploring core erotic themes that are unconsciously driving your relationship choices; For some arousal or loss of arousal and emotions may be limiting your choice with your confidence in intimate situations; This may include ejaculatory choice, overcoming numbness and low libido, loss of sensation, hypersensitivity, or when the body closes, which sometimes results in conditions like dryness or vaginismus.
We all carry culturally influenced internalised inhibitions that interrupt our receptivity and attunement for trusting our authentic spontaneity.
Your coach will guide you in the privacy you need to explore enhancing your attuned receptivity to your body and emotions. Your practitioner is trained to support your confidence in intimate decision-making and to help you heal the emotional hangovers from times we have suffered through situations.
These practices include empowering your agency and building confidence through The Wheel of Consent to explore co-created relationship agreements we are all on board with.
There may be aspects of your life you feel some shame or shyness about, and you want to be liberated from.
WE all carry scars, whether they be emotional or physical - Your practitioner has training in scar tissue remediation to offer presence and guided, specific types of touch that release what has been reducing your movement and fluidity with your emotions and body.
Many of our practitioners are specialised in working with couples to help you come together and be on the same page after ruptures in your attunement and understanding with each other. We offer practices for you both to inhabit new ways of being, so you can grow together and deepen your intimacy skills with each other.
Our practitioners are trained to support you with erotic and emotional fluency and regulation so that whatever arises n a session, can be welcomed and navigated together - including trauma responses
We are most disabled when we are unable to represent ourselves. This may be due to not knowing what we want, losing sensations, or lacking confidence.
You will be guided through what we call ‘Somatic Assessments’ , which support you discovering your learning edges and learning from your strengths and limitations and practising new ways of enhancing your confidence in intimate
decision-making.
These include enhancing your somatic recognition of what you feel a yes to and what you feel a no to and how to tell the difference, learning how to recognise and represent your limits before it's too late, discovering your gifts in this lifetime, becoming fluent in navigating intimate space and distances, role-playing repair processes, becoming fluent in your creative self-expression, healing body image concerns, and many more.
